Trauma-informed consultancy · for high earners

Everyone sees the high performer.
You’re still waiting to exhale.

You have stayed in control, relentlessly high-functioning, but the cracked seams are now showing. The pressure you can handle; the emotions, not so much. You are primed and ready for change, not another performance. What we offer is guidance tailored to your unique needs — a path to psychological mastery and self-regulation, by the person it saved.

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Your high functioning is not what we fix.
It is what we protect.

This is for you if…

  • You earn $170K–$250K+ — yet your nervous system still runs as though it is surviving.
  • You are hyper-independent, and delegating feels harder than doing it all yourself.
  • You quietly self-sabotage right at the edge of your next milestone.
  • Perfectionism and fear of disapproval keep the past running the present.

Still Chosen provides coaching and strategic advisory. This is not therapy, counselling or medical treatment, and nothing here is a substitute for licensed mental-health care.

Trauma-informed approach· 1:1 strategic advisory· Built for $170K–$250K earners· Performance without the burnout
Push past the barriers

Are you having difficulty scaling your team, reached an income ceiling, or suffering from severe exhaustion or burnout?

These aren’t three separate problems — they’re three faces of the same ceiling. Still Chosen can help you push past these barriers, so growth stops costing you your health and starts compounding your capacity.

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Sound familiar?

From the outside, you’re winning.
From the inside, it’s costing you.

If you’ve been harmed — physically, emotionally, psychologically — and kept performing anyway, you’re exactly who we work with. If any of these three hit a little too close to home, that’s not a coincidence.

The bottleneck

Hyper-independence is capping your ceiling.

You built everything with your own two hands — and now those same two hands are the bottleneck. Delegating feels like losing control, so you hold the weight alone while the business waits for you to let go.

The ceiling

Self-sabotage shows up right on schedule.

Every time revenue climbs, something pulls you back — procrastination, overcommitting, decisions that do not match your goals. It is not a discipline problem. It is a pattern with a purpose it never told you about.

The grip

Perfectionism and fear of disapproval run the show.

You over-deliver, over-edit and over-think — because somewhere in your past, being flawless felt like being safe. The past did its job. It does not have to keep setting the terms.

The limit

The limit arrives without warning.

It doesn’t send a calendar invite. High achievers who have been harmed — physically, emotionally, psychologically — carry that harm quietly through quarters, promotions, and wins. Until one day, unexpectedly and spontaneously, they reach a limit they didn’t know was there: the mind blanks in the meeting, the body won’t get out of bed, the anger or the numbness arrives without permission.

That limit is not weakness. It is unprocessed harm, surfacing. And it lands exactly where you live: your performance, your productivity, your next level.

See how we work with it
The offers, at a glance — full details below
The Rapid Reset — $697 Two hours, start to finish · help this week, not next month Start now — $697 → Accelerated — $1,790 30 days of private 1:1 · one pattern mapped and released See the 30 days → Intensive — $3,130 3 months of private 1:1 · all three patterns, at the root Most chosen → Comprehensive — $5,970 6 months of private 1:1 · inner work + scaling, compounding Build for the decade →
Not sure which? The first 30 minutes are free — book it →
The SEAM method

Where the inner work meets the outer move.

Most high achievers do not have a strategy problem. They have a seam problem — the place where inner patterns meet outer results. Most performance brands start with the strategy and skip the seam entirely. We start there: four movements, each one turning a survival pattern into scaled success.

1 · See

See your situation exactly as it is. No filters.

Observe your situation with clarity. Name what actually happened, in accurate words, without minimising it. You cannot see clearly while flooded — so this is also where we build effective, repeatable coping strategies that reduce emotional overload in real time, so that high-stakes decisions stop being made from a dysregulated state.

2 · Empty

Empty your mind of limitations.

Let go. Release the fear, shame, guilt, self-doubt and anxiety — and return the verdict to whoever issued it. Gently unpack the hyper-independence, self-sabotage and perfectionism keeping you small: honour what those patterns did for you, then retire what they now cost you.

3 · Anchor

Anchor yourself in your truth.

Rebuild a self that does not depend on anyone’s approval — and stop submitting evidence to people who already reached their verdict. This is where boundaries stop being a word and become a system.

4 · Move

The next move is still yours.

Turn the wound into your purpose. Turn what was meant to destroy you into what uplifts and motivates you — and channel it into the work you are uniquely equipped to do. Install the delegation systems and strategic focus that let you scale your business and your capacity at the same time, without performing a wellness you do not feel.

Four movements. One seam. That is where Still Chosen works.

Free starter guide

Start with one still moment.

If you are not ready for 1:1 work — or you simply want to see how we think — begin with the guide. It is free, it is gentle, and it is yours.

PDF guide · free · no pressure

The Still Point: a trauma-informed starter guide for high achievers

  • Why “just relax” does not work for someone built like you — and what does
  • A ninety-second reset for the moment overload hits, mid-meeting or mid-meltdown
  • One question that reveals whether hyper-independence is protecting you or capping you
  • How to spot self-sabotage early, without judging yourself for having it
  • A permission slip: you do not have to be fixed to begin

Written to be read in one sitting, at your own pace. Nothing in it asks you to share, perform, or explain yourself.

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The boundary, stated plainly

This is coaching. Here’s exactly what that means.

It’s coaching.

Strategy, structure, and skills — built on lived experience and aimed at two things at once: your performance and your peace. Every session produces something workable you take into the week.

It’s not therapy.

No diagnosis, no treatment, no archive of your worst day required. Nothing asks you to relive anything before you’re ready — and when clinical care is the better door, we’ll say so plainly and help you find it.

It’s both/and.

Therapy and coaching aren’t competitors. Many of our clients have a therapist and come here for the doing — the strategies that turn insight into output. The two lanes strengthen each other.

Still Chosen provides coaching and strategic advisory — never therapy, counselling, or medical treatment. If you’re in crisis, a licensed professional is the right door, and we will always point you there without hesitation.

1:1 strategic advisory · November intake

Choose your level of support.

Every engagement is private 1:1 work, shaped around you. Limited-time launch pricing applies to the November intake; when the places fill, pricing returns to the standard rate.

Option one

Accelerated Strategic Advisory

Private 1:1 · every core element of the practice
Milestone · Stabilize — ends with your written review
  • Four 60-minute 1:1 strategy sessions — one every week
  • Acute emotional overload reduced with a personalised coping-strategy toolkit
  • One core pattern mapped; strategies created to release it
  • A written action plan with clear recommendations
  • 6–8 messages or emails of support each week
  • A 60-minute follow-up call after your 30 days
$2,970$1,790
Limited-time offer — save $1,180
Or 2 × $895 — half to book, half at day fifteen. The same $1,790 in total.
Book a strategy call Pay once or in parts — both go through straight away, or settle it on the call.
Already decided? Go straight to checkout →
Best if you want a fast, focused reset.
Most chosen
Option two

Intensive Strategic Advisory

Private 1:1 · everything in Accelerated, deepened
Milestone · Rebuild — ends with your written review
  • Everything in Accelerated, at three times the depth — 12 weekly sessions
  • All three core patterns worked at the root: hyper-independence, self-sabotage, perfectionism
  • Rescue calls: one 20-minute stabilisation call every month
  • Action plan updated monthly; toolkit refreshed as patterns release
  • 12–15 messages or emails of support each week
  • A 60-minute follow-up call after your three months
$3,970$3,130
Limited-time offer — save $840
Or 2 × $1,565 — half to book, half at week three. The same $3,130 in total.
Book a strategy call Pay once or in parts — both go through straight away, or settle it on the call.
Already decided? Go straight to checkout →
Best if you want real pattern change, not just relief.
Option three

Comprehensive Strategic Advisory

Private 1:1 · everything in Intensive, with staying power
Milestone · Lead — ends with your written review
  • Everything in Intensive, sustained until it holds — 12 × 60-minute weekly sessions through months one to three
  • 6 × 60-minute fortnightly sessions through months four to six, as you take it over
  • Two half-day strategy intensives — three hours each, at the start and at month four
  • Rescue calls: three 20-minute stabilisation calls every month
  • Unlimited messages or email support, Monday to Friday
  • Quarterly written strategy review alongside monthly plan updates
  • Leadership and delegation systems that hold when the pressure peaks
  • Two 60-minute follow-up calls after your six months
$6,970$5,970
Limited-time offer — save $1,000
Or 3 × $1,990 — at the start, week four and week eight. The same $5,970 in total.
Book a strategy call Pay once or in parts — both go through straight away, or settle it on the call.
Already decided? Go straight to checkout →
Best if you are building for the next decade, not the next quarter.

Two ways to pay, and you choose at the end of your strategy call. One payment is instant and self-serve — card, done, nothing to arrange. Paying in two or three parts goes through the same way and costs nothing extra — the first part today, the rest automatically, stopping on their own once the plan is paid. Same work, same start date, same two-week door either way.

Need help now? · two hours, start to finish

The Rapid Reset

Ninety minutes of deep work, tailored to what you are facing right now. Built for the person with an immediate challenge — an emotional relapse, a trauma response interfering with work performance and productivity — who needs active intervention and a personalised strategy, not a programme and not another PDF.

We take the one situation that is burning and work it together: what is happening, what is actually driving it, and the strategy that turns it around. You leave with something workable in your hands — and we seal it on a follow-up call.

$697 Flat rate · 90-minute intensive + 30-minute follow-up · one payment, no plan, no refund
Book the Rapid Reset — $697
Fast track: once you’ve done the reset, either engagement can become an Advisory — upgrade within 30 days and take 10% off the Accelerated ($1,611), 20% off the Intensive ($2,504), or 30% off the Comprehensive ($4,179).
Best if you need traction this week — not next month.
The Rapid Reset — for the week that cannot wait for a programme. Ninety minutes 1:1, a thirty-minute follow-up, one strategy you can run the same day. $697 flat rate.
What is included
  • 90 minutes, 1:1 — deep, uninterrupted work on the challenge you bring
  • Phone or video — your choice, whichever feels safer today
  • A workable strategy — personalised, specific, ready to run the same day
  • 30-minute follow-up call — to adjust the strategy to what real life pressed back
The Pair · learn + reset

The Breakthrough + The Rapid Reset

The course to stop the pattern — then two hours of 1:1 to apply it to your exact situation, with a strategy built around you.

$894$805
10% off when taken together — save $89
Start the pair
Path B · built with you

Not sure which path is the right one?

Then don’t choose it alone. Start with the Rapid Reset and keep going at the depth that actually fits — and we work out which depth that is together, on the call. Whichever two you choose, the pair is priced 10–30% below booking them separately.

+ Accelerated 30 days · four weekly sessions $2,487$2,238 save $249 · 10%
+ Intensive 3 months · twelve weekly sessions $3,827$3,062 save $765 · 20%
+ Comprehensive 6 months · the deepest engagement $6,667$4,667 save $2,000 · 30%
Let’s build your path together.
Build my path on the call
Nothing is decided on the call that you have not agreed to, and the thirty minutes are free either way.

Book a strategy call — your first 30 minutes are free.

Thirty minutes, on us. Bring the situation weighing on you most right now — leave with an honest read, a workable next step, and zero obligation. No pressure, and no follow-up sequence you didn’t ask for.

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Sorrina keeps six private clients. That is the whole list — November intake, first come, first served
The two-week door: every advisory engagement is fully refundable through the end of week two — no exit interview, no hard feelings. If it is not right, you say so and it is done. After the end of week two, refunds are no longer available — work already done is not refunded. Pausing and rescheduling stay open to you either way. Read the refund policy in full.

Launch pricing ends when the November places fill.

Guided course · fourteen days · preorder open

The Breakthrough.
Stop self-sabotage before it stops you.

Not ready for 1:1 work, but done with watching yourself freeze at the exact moment momentum builds? Start here. Fourteen days, one situation, worked all the way through.

Preorder now available

Are you procrastinating, feeling stuck, shutting down, or paralysed by fear?

That is self-sabotage, and it is quietly costing you at work: the delayed decision, the shelved launch, the week that evaporates right before the breakthrough.

Here is what most productivity advice gets wrong. It is not a flaw. It is a survival mechanism built to protect you — and it did protect you, once. It never got the message that you are safe to succeed now, so it keeps defending an old line, and it is costing you the future it was guarding.

The Breakthrough gives you trauma-informed strategies to steady your emotions and restore your workflow, so that you stop fighting yourself and start finishing what you start.

  • A guided course — fourteen days, the Still Chosen approach, one step at a time
  • Self-paced — fourteen days is the shape of it, not a deadline; take the time you need
  • One situation — the thing you have been circling, named, emptied, anchored and moved
  • A worksheet — insight turned into a plan you will use on Monday
  • A certificate on completion — proof you finished what you began
The Breakthrough — a fourteen-day guided course from Still Chosen. Stop self-sabotage before it stops you. One situation, worked all the way through, with a worksheet and a certificate. $197.

The Breakthrough

Preorder now · opening date announced soon

$397$197
Limited-time preorder — save $200

One payment — no plan, no refund. Your access code arrives the moment it opens.

Preorder now — $197

Preorder today and you are first through the door, and first to know the date.

Honest fit check

We are a powerful fit — or we are not.
Either way, you deserve to know.

This is for you if…

  • You earn $170K–$250K+ and your output no longer matches your effort
  • You suspect the real bottleneck is internal, not tactical
  • You are ready to be honest about hyper-independence, self-sabotage or perfectionism
  • You want a trauma-informed approach, not recycled hustle advice
  • You will do the work between sessions

This is probably not for you if…

  • You are looking for therapy or clinical treatment — I will gladly point you to licensed care
  • You want someone else to fix it without your participation
  • You are seeking a guarantee — no honest coach can promise one
  • You are not in a position to invest in 1:1 support right now
Sorrina Jolie De Noir
Sorrina Jolie De Noir

I didn’t study this from the outside — I was harmed inside the very career I excelled at, and I navigated out through intense, self-directed coaching. Every strategy here worked on me first.

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November intake · limited places

You were still chosen.
Choose yourself back.

The version of you that built all this was surviving brilliantly. The next version gets to lead from calm, and scale because of it rather than despite it.

Once the November places are taken, enrolment closes at launch pricing
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Coaching and strategic advisory. Not therapy or medical care. If you are in crisis, please contact a licensed professional or your local emergency service.

Questions, answered · My story · All four ways to work together